We have to be careful with the stories we tell ourselves.
We need to listen to how we talk about ourselves: is it positive? Do we self-deprecate often? Do we speak with humility?
The danger is that without realising it, we soon grow into the characters in our stories.
We hear this in conversation. Some people are always the victim in their story. Others, the heroes. Some people always have the final say.
What story are you telling others about yourself in the conversations you have?